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Oghowen, My mother's beloved. (Episode 1)

        Epa domo, I greeted Papa Ikpomwosa, our neighbour. Esosa, welcome, my son.Una don get holiday? The old man asked. Yes, Epa,  we are on Easter break. Oh-0h! exclaimed the old man, welcome home, my son. How body? Fine, Epa, I said and started walkinghome briskly, mama would be expecting me. I got home and called, Mama!Mama! Mama came out and when she saw me, I saw the joy on her face, she ran to hug me, and started shedding tears, I cleaned mama's tears and told her to stop crying. Indeed, the death of oghowen is taking its toll on mama, mama was no longer the lively woman she used to be, she was looking old and frail.       Our  father had died in a ghastly road accident when I was barely three years old, I don't have any memories of my father, mama was pregnant with oghowen. Papa's family members threw mama and I out of our home and mama had to be the only one fending for us. I grew up seeing mama as a very hardworking ...

The rain said yes to our prayers

Lolu and I were lovers while we were in the university. You know that thing they say about about 'first love' right? Yes, Lolu was the first guy I fell in love with but things eventually went sour between us and we went our separate ways. I forgot about love, not because of anything else but because I was busy. I forgot about Lolu too, maybe that was a lie I told myself for five years, but I did so well in concealing it. Five years later, I had secured a good job, I was doing well for myself and I was the definition of an independent woman. It was on a Wednesday morning when my phone rang and woke me up, it was my mother calling. She rendered her prayers and gave me all other unnecessary 'gists', I knew where she was going, she wanted to talk about marriage but thank my stars, my boss' call came through and I had to excuse my mum, my boss told me of a presentation I would have to give to a company we had been looking forward to partner with and because, Mr Patrick,...

Don't cook your balls! Men! Do you know that heat causes reduced sperm count thereby leading to reduced fertility? During this period that heat can bake cake without an oven, here are simple tips on how you can free your balls from the heat.

So, now that you know that heat can cause reduced fertility and definitely, you want to be able to make someone pregnant, how do you prevent your balls from cooking in this heat that can bake a cake without an oven? 1) Avo id tight clothing If you are the type that likes wearing tight jean or tight pants, then, you are not doing what is good to your sperm. Free your pants a bit and let your junior boys breath a little. 2) Avoid any underwear made of nylon products , wear more of cotton products Cotton wears absorb moisture and reduces the heat in this area 3) Avoid placing laptops on your laps Why is it named a laptop if we cannot put it on laps? I bet you asked that same question. Well, since laptop emits heat and since your laps are closer to your scrotum, better safe than sorry. It will be better you find somewhere far from your scrotum to place that laptop before you cook the boys down there. 4) A cold shower before you sleep is not a bad ...

Ladies! During this harsh heat period, what care are you giving your vagina? Heat can cause your vagina to have bad odour, itching and can give you vagina infection. You can prevent this by following this simple tips

This heat is everywhere and everyone has been feeling its wrath. Well, every other part of our body can withstand this heat but it's not advisable to risk our vaggy. How do we save our Vagina from the wrath of this serious heat? These simple tips will go a long way to protect our vagina from bad odour, itching and infection. You can choose the ones most comfortable for you if not all. 1) Shave off your pubic hair Hair traps sweat and keeps moisture. No! Your vagina does not need that. Shave the hair and let in some fresh air. 2) Avoid tight panties This is the time to do away with those very tight under wears. I know panty hoses are sexy but your vagina needs to breath. Wear something free, this will enable air in and reduce the heat 3) Wash your vagina with clean water each time you pee ( urinate ) This will not only help to keep the urine odour off your vagina but will also wash off any sweat that might have been trapped in there 4) Do away with p anti...

Ladies! During this harsh heat period, what care are you giving your vagina? Heat can give your vagina a bad odour, itching and vagina infections. Here are some simple tips on how you can save your vagina from this harsh heat and prevent vagina odour, itching and infection.

This heat is everywhere and everyone has been feeling its wrath. Well, every other part of our body can withstand this heat but it's not advisable to risk our vaggy. How do we save our Vagina from the wrath of this serious heat? These simple tips will go a long way to protect our vagina from bad odour, itching and infection. You can choose the ones most comfortable for you if not all. 1) Shave off your pubic hair Hair traps sweat and keeps moisture. No! Your vagina does not need that. Shave the hair and let in some fresh air. 2) Avoid tight panties This is the time to do away with those very tight under wears. I know panty hoses are sexy but your vagina needs to breath. Wear something free, this will enable air in and reduce the heat 3) Wash your vagina with clean water each time you pee ( urinate ) This will not only help to keep the urine odour off your vagina but will also wash off any sweat that might have been trapped in there 4) Do away with p anties w...

It's a popular belief that circumcised women cannot enjoy sexual intercourse. Well, today is the zero tolerance day for Female genital mutilation. Here are some tips on how a circumcised woman can enjoy sex with no pain and even reach orgasm.

Female genital mutilation [FGM] also known as Female circumcision is a cultural practise that have existed since time immemorial. Although, there are now  movements to stop this practise, it is still common in Asia, Middle east and some African countries like somalia, indonesia, Yemen and also the northern part of Nigeria. FGM is of four types namely; Type 1 also known as Clitoridectomy  and in this case, the clitoral hood is removed. Type 2 also known as Excision. Here, there is a complete or partial removal of the inner labia with or without the removal of the clitoral glans. Type 3 also known as infibulation. Here, there is the removal of the external genitalia and fusion of the wound. The upholders of this culture do so because they think it ensures chastity but they end up bringing more harm to these girls. The effects of FGM range from infertility to chronic infections and inability to achieve sexual enjoyment. The pain during intercourse is directly proportional...

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At what point should you walk away from a relationship?

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Ladies! During this harsh heat period, what care are you giving your vagina? Heat can cause your vagina to have bad odour, itching and can give you vagina infection. You can prevent this by following this simple tips

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